To split or not to split: As Divorce Day looms couples face the financial challenges of separation and solo life

Over the years solicitors have noticed an increase in enquiries in early January as people who have been struggling with relationship problems start to think about taking decisive action. 

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Published: 04 Jan 2024 Updated: 05 Jan 2024

Strains on relationships can escalate during the festive season and send some marriages or civil partnerships to breaking point. Over the years solicitors have noticed an increase in enquiries in early January as people who have been struggling with relationship problems start to think about taking decisive action.  

A spike in enquiries regarding - and even filings for - divorce often occurs on the first working Monday of the year, which has come to be known, rather grimly, as Divorce Day and this year falls on 8 January. 

No-Fault legislation enacted in April 2022 means that couples can now divorce on the grounds their marriage has irretrievably broken down, without the need to attribute blame.  

Ben Glassman, Financial Planning Partner and Head of Family & Divorce at leading wealth management firm Evelyn Partners, says: 'The less confrontational system can help crucial decisions on the splitting of assets to be made with a bit more clarity and harmony, which tends to achieve more beneficial outcomes. As the law change eased the practicality of divorce, it did lead to a brief surge in applications in the second and third quarters of 2022, many of which probably came from couples who had been waiting for the new legislation to kick in before formalising their separation. 

‘No Fault does not, however, seem to have led to an increase in the number couples taking the divorce route, with Family Court statistics suggesting no such trend.[1]’ 

In fact, recent research suggests that financial pressures could be delaying divorces. A survey has found that the cost of living crisis has given more than 270,000 couples pause for thought before splitting, delaying nearly a fifth of divorces.[2] 

‘Financial pressures can be a complicated dynamic for many couples: money worries can certainly add to the strain on a marriage, but they can also weaken the motivation to separate. Some couples decide to remain together because they do not want to incur the costs of formal separation and don’t like the look of solo life’s financial challenges.  

‘The soaring cost of mortgages was a major development in 2023 that made separation for some couples a trickier financial conundrum than it had been previously, alongside the generalised increase in the cost of living. For those who do decide to break up, the fate of the family home and the splitting of financial assets like pensions are often some of the most difficult issues to reach agreement on.' 

Splitting assets and financial settlement 

While No Fault might help more couples avoid costly legal exchanges over the separation itself, Glassman warns: 'The temptation is to try and “go DIY” over the whole process, including the financial settlement. This is understandable as people are keen to avoid hefty legal fees, which can run into many thousands of pounds.  

'But the biggest legal bills occur when there is a dispute over the financial settlement, which is a separate matter to the divorce itself, and can often drag on much longer. An agreement over the splitting of assets that is arrived at amicably, and preferably at an early stage, is pretty much essential if both parties want to minimise stress and expense.   

'For many couples to achieve this, advice from a financial planner with experience of divorce will be invaluable, particularly where pensions or other complex matrimonial assets are concerned.'  

The financial implications of divorce are now particularly acute after a two-year bout of high inflation, soaring mortgage rates, and a lot of economic uncertainty that could still affect the jobs and housing markets.  

Glassman says: 'It is the case that living as part of a couple is usually cheaper and more financially secure than living alone, and marriage also carries many tax advantages. Those embarking on life as a single person, particularly if they have been married for many years, can experience something of a financial shock. Nowhere is that more noticeable now than in regard to property, with house prices close to all-time highs and mortgage rates and rental costs higher than they have been in many years.' 

In reaching a financial agreement, a court usually considers a 50:50 split as a starting point for a long marriage of more than five years as set out in the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973. This will cover property, pensions, savings and any child maintenance.   

The family home and mortgage costs 

Glassman says: ‘Property is usually the biggest asset, and if one partner wants to stay in the family home, they will often have to forgo the majority of the other assets such as savings and pensions. One spouse often wants to hang on to the family home when getting divorced, especially where children are involved.  

‘But keeping the home doesn’t always make financial sense when taken into context with other existing assets. A property one lives in doesn’t produce an income and parts can’t be sold to meet spending.   

‘However, higher mortgage rates have narrowed the options for those who need to borrow to buy a new home, as many divorcees do. The mortgage crunch has made finding a solution to the property conundrum for some divorcing couples a lot trickier.   

'One spouse remaining in the family home - apart from minimising disruption, particularly where children are involved – has traditionally been the low-cost option as it will avoid some legal, mortgage and property transaction fees.  

'But the spouse who stays will usually have to find the money to buy the other’s share of equity and, if they can’t draw on other assets to do so, the new interest rate environment could make it difficult for them to obtain the extra borrowing. Conversely, the shared mortgage could be on a low-rate fixed deal with years to go, and the spouse who departs might feel aggrieved at having to borrow at inflated rates to fund their new home.  

'If there is no option but to sell the home, in a weakening property market that could mean having to accept a lower offer than envisaged – and it could also mean having to pay an early repayment charge if the mortgage was fixed. Each partner, with their share of the equity, will then be faced with the task of securing a new mortgage at elevated rates to buy their respective new homes. However, it is often feasible for one party to port an existing fixed mortgage and some lenders allow couples to split and port a fixed rate loan.  

'With rates where they are, a single buyer might find they can afford less than they’d hoped, without moving to a cheaper area – and this will be especially the case for older borrowers who might find lenders less willing to allow monthly costs to be kept down by extending the loan term beyond 20 or 25 years.'  


Pensions are an area that can become a source of confusion and dispute at divorce, especially when one spouse has a much greater pension provision than the other. Pensions are often the biggest marital asset after property, and sometimes even the largest, making up 42 per cent of household wealth, according to the ONS.

Many divorcees who don’t take professional advice do not discuss pensions as part of their settlement and this can then lead to costly legal disputes at the eleventh hour as the financial settlement goes in front of a judge, or even after it has been made. 

Glassman says: ‘We have seen the average age of a couple getting divorced rising, and alongside pension freedoms introduced in 2015 this has created a greater emphasis in recent years on pension assets in divorce settlements. When a couple is in their 60s, pension pots are likely to be at their greatest value, and the issue can become contentious when, as is often the case, one spouse (typically the male) holds the majority of pension wealth. 

'There are various ways of splitting pension assets, but the important thing is to have it on the radar and make sure pensions are valued properly and an informed agreement is arrived at before the financial settlement – a process that can often require financial advice. Because once the court order is made, it is extremely difficult to alter the settlement.’ 

Splitting or sharing pension assets is much more complicated than for cash savings, and will be influenced by the type of pension (is it a defined contribution pot or a defined benefit scheme?), the tax regime that covers pension access and the relative ages of the divorcing couple.

The long-standing ‘earmarking’ option is where the non-pension holder receives regular payments – which will cease on the death of the former spouse - but the asset remains firmly in the hands of the pension saver, who will be liable for tax.  

But this has given way in many cases to splitting or offsetting the pension. When a pension is split the non-pension holder is awarded a share of the asset, which then becomes their own, so they gain control of how they use it, and are no longer tied to the original pension holder.  

A pension can also be dealt with by offsetting it against other assets but this can involve often complicated calculations as to the cash value of the pension. As such it might be a more usual option among younger couples, who will not have had the time to build up significant pots.   

Where an individual sees a reduction in their pension pot, it might prove difficult to rebuild, particularly if they have triggered the Money Purchase Annual Allowance. And one final issue to remember is that pension pots don’t typically form part of an estate for inheritance tax purposes.  

Particular difficulties and confusion can arise over defined benefit pensions in a financial settlement. Valuable DB pensions provide a guaranteed income for life and need careful consideration on how they should be valued and split for matrimonial purposes – not least because different schemes use different valuation calculations.  

Even when a DB pension has been valued, the question remains as to how it might be shared or offset. These issues have been complicated still further by recent volatility in the bond market, as DB valuations depend in part on gilt yields. As these soared to their highest in 15 years last year, DB valuations have plunged and in some cases nearly halved. 

State pensions are also important, adds Glassman: ‘Women especially often have gaps in their career, which could affect their state pension entitlement. It’s important to obtain a projection, particularly when looking to equalise the pension entitlement of the two spouses. The value of a guaranteed income of £10,000 inflation-linked from age 66 (currently) until death is not to be underestimated.’  

Capital gains tax  

Divorce can sometimes require the transfer or disposal of assets and that in turn can have capital gains tax consequences – although the regime has recently changed for separating couples. Transfer of assets between spouses takes place on a ‘no gain, no loss’ basis for CGT purposes, so that no tax is crystallised on the transfer, with the receiving spouse effectively taking the other spouse’s base cost. This rule for spouses used to apply only up to the end of the tax year of permanent separation.  

But since 6 April 2023 this treatment is available for up to three tax years after the end of the tax-year of separation – or for an unlimited time when the assets are transferred as part of a formal divorce agreement.  

Glassman says: 'This will provide divorcing couples with more time and flexibility to arrange their financial affairs under the settlement. Changes to the rules around private residential relief also mean that a spouse who retains a share in the family home will be able to claim relief from CGT on any profits they make if the home is sold to a third party – even if they have since bought another home.   

'These recent rule changes have made the splitting of assets potentially easier and fairer, but possible CGT pitfalls remain. While the spouse rules work on a “no gain, no loss” basis, they do not extinguish the inherent gain within the asset. In order to understand the real value of their settlement under the divorce, the spouses will therefore need to understand the ‘net of tax’ position.'  

Other assets   

Savings and investments: In the same way that pensions are usually included in a divorce settlement, so are savings and investments. In Scotland, it is usually only the savings and investments built up during a marriage that matter, whereas the courts in England, Wales and Northern Ireland generally take all of them into account.  

Life assurance: Married couples will often have joint life policies in place and after divorce these could be cancelled or assigned to one of the divorcees as part of the settlement. However, this could be an issue if one of the divorcee’s health has suffered and they can’t get replacement life cover. Furthermore, one area that is often is overlooked, is the event that the ex-spouse has to make maintenance payments for children, until they are financially independent (typically their 18th birthdays). These maintenance payments can only be made if the ex-spouse survives so, as part of a divorce settlement, discuss putting in place life cover that would ensure that the payments would continue to be made, even on the ex-spouse’s death.  

Business assets: Business owners often don’t realise that their ex – even one who has never been involved with the business – may be entitled to a share of the business on divorce. The court takes into account all assets and is unlikely to make a distinction between business and other assets unless there is legal paperwork to show otherwise. A family court is likely to try hard not to disrupt a business but at times they do decide that the only way to divide assets is to break it up or sell it. This can be devastating and have profound financial implications for business owners. Divorce can also lead to one party buying out the other.    


Make sure that your Will is updated immediately. If it isn’t changed, the assets could pass to the spouse on death prior to the divorce being granted. You might also want to put in place a Power of Attorney so that decisions can be made in case they become incapacitated prior to the divorce being granted.  

The benefits of advice   

Glassman concludes: 'Even where couples are truly amicable and wish to ensure their wealth is split in the fairest and most tax-advantageous manner, involving a financial planner can save substantial amounts of money. This is particularly true where there are significant pension assets involved.  

‘Getting good independent legal advice is always important even if the parties are 'on good terms'. However, we would argue that also having a financial planner involved early in the process is as important. Independent financial assessments can benefit both the divorcing parties, achieve clarity around the real value of the couple's matrimonial estate, and shape the divorce settlement to achieve an optimal outcome for the long-term.’ 


[1] ‘Between July to September 2023 there were 27,290 applications made... a decrease of 12% from the same quarter in 2022 where applications were still quite high due to the recent introduction of the new divorce law.’ 

Family Court Statistics Quarterly: July to September 2023 - GOV.UK ( 

[2] Holy Matrimoney: 272,000 delay divorce due to cost-of-living pressures | Legal & General (